Put the coconut milk, red lentils, jalapeno, ginger, and carrot into a pot. Bring to a boil then reduce down to a simmer. Stir every few minutes and cook until the coconut milk is mostly absorbed, about 10-15 minutes.
Stir in the spinach, orange juice and zest, and dried apricots (or peaches or mangoes). Cook for 5 minutes, until the spinach is wilted and the orange juice is absorbed.
Taste the lentils. They should be easy to bite through. If not, add about 1/4 cup of water to the pot and cook until absorbed and then taste again. [Repeat as needed. Older lentils may take longer to cook.]
Once the lentils are cooked to your liking, add salt to taste. I usually add at least 1/2 teaspoon, but start with less and add more if desired.